Elegant Gothic Lolita

Anime & Manga

 * This style did originate in Japan, so as you may imagine, it's common in anime.
 * Everyone and everything from Black Butler. (With, of course, the guys tending more toward Elegant Gothic Aristocrat.) Even the grim and steely little Ciel Phantomhive wears tiers of lace and roses spilling off his top hats.
 * Then he plays it straight by way of the Wholesome Crossdresser look, when he went undercover as "Robin" during the "Jack the Ripper" arc.
 * Anna Kushina in K is 11 years old, has very doll-like skin and white hair and wears a frilly red dress and matching ribbons on her hair. She really stands out since the rest of the members of HOMRA are dressed like gangsters or thugs.
 * Kanna from Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid normally wears a frilly dress that's something of a hybrid between Gothic Lolita and traditional Ainu clothing. Kobayashi describes it as "tribal goth loli".
 * In The Wallflower (Or Yamato Nadeshiko Shichi Henge), there's the "GothLoli Sisters" who are rather less than elegant, not very lolita-ish, and also not very gothic... but that's what they call themselves, and often chant "Goth Goth Loli Loli".

Web Animation

 * Ever After High features this heavily, for obvious reasons. Can't sell plain looking characters as dolls, now, can you? But... It does not match the guidelines for the style very much, though, so it's more of a downplayed version, although the general silhouette and certain accessories and decorations of some characters look very lolitesque, the clothing of the girls looks like a fairy tale/fantasy reinterpretation of Lolita.
 * Draculaura from Monster High shows a few elements of this. Also Elissabat.